I Am ASCA
Why are you an ASCA member? The ASCA community has been a place where I’ve met a diverse group of people and have been blessed with lifelong friendships with people who share similar passions and goals.
What inspires you about being a school counselor? Being a school counselor inspires me because it allows me to meet students where they are and find innovative ways to connect with them. I am passionate about supporting students throughout their educational journey and walking alongside them as they navigate various stages of their lives.
What words do you live by? The words I live by are patience, self-control, love and kindness. I embraced these principles early in my teaching career as a means to model positive behavior and to guide students constructively. As the years have gone by, I found that we constantly need to remember our why and how we want to show up in spaces.
What would you be doing if you weren’t a school counselor? If I weren’t a school counselor, I would likely return to my previous role as an elementary school teacher because who doesn’t like getting boogers smeared on them by kindergarteners? All jokes aside, I would have loved to be a park ranger or marine biologist to educate people on the importance, beauty and peace nature provides.
When and why did you know you wanted to be a school counselor? My aspiration to become a school counselor began when I was a kid involved in gangs. I was considered the bad kid everywhere I went and was constantly getting caught in troublesome activities. Thankfully, my middle school counselor met me where I was at and instilled hope in me. Through all the headaches I caused, he never gave up on me and loved me unconditionally.
What brings you joy? Joy for me comes from conversations with my partner, quality time with my family in Mexico, eating delicious vegetarian food and anything that involves a tent and rock climbing gear.
What do you do to decompress/eliminate stress/refuel for the next day? Staying active is crucial for my stress relief. CrossFit has become a vital part of my routine, helping me to reset and recharge. Additionally, spending time with loved ones and being involved in my community helps me maintain balance.
How would you describe your job to a 5 year old? It is the best job in the world. You get to listen, play, draw, color, be kind and help people when they need it.